The Sponsor Who Wants More Than Was Agreed
Dana coaches for a leadership development firm. Six months ago the VP of Operations, Marcus, engaged her for eight sessions with a newly promoted plant supervisor, Priya. The tripartite conversation covered goals, confidentiality, and the fact that Marcus would receive only attendance and a general engagement status. Priya has completed five sessions and has been candid about a conflict with her shift leads. Yesterday Marcus emailed: he wants the remaining three sessions compressed into two weeks, and he now wants a short summary of themes and progress before Priya's 90-day review. He adds that this is a condition of the invoice being paid. Priya has not been told about the change. Dana's contract with the firm says she follows the sponsor organization's requests.
1. What should Dana do first about Marcus's two requests, and why is neither immediate compliance nor a flat refusal the right answer?
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The examiner is testing whether you separate who pays from who is the client, and whether you treat agreements as a living process rather than a document signed once.
- Identify the live agreement issue. There was an explicit agreement about what Marcus would receive (attendance plus general status). A request for 'themes and progress' is a change to that agreement, not an administrative detail. Changing an agreement requires the people affected - Priya first.
- Do not comply silently. Complying would breach the confidentiality terms Priya relied on and would make the coach an extension of the performance-review process. It also teaches Priya that the room is not safe.
- Do not simply refuse either. Refusing without dialogue treats the sponsor as an adversary and ignores a legitimate business need (Marcus wants to support a new supervisor). A coach can usually meet the sponsor's underlying need - reassurance - without disclosing content: for example, confirming engagement, attendance, and that Priya has identified focus areas she chooses to share herself.
- Surface the pressure. The invoice condition is leverage. Payment terms do not purchase access to coaching content; Dana should say so plainly and separately from the confidentiality conversation.
- Sequence: talk with Marcus to understand purpose and reset the boundary, then tell Priya the request was made and what Dana proposed, then re-contract with Priya about what she wants shared, if anything, and with whom.
A defensible answer names the sequence and the reasoning, not just 'maintain confidentiality.'
2. Priya asks, 'Did Marcus tell you what to ask me?' How should Dana answer, and what is at stake in getting this wrong?
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The pull here is to soften things - 'He just checked in' - to avoid unsettling Priya. That instinct usually damages the alliance more than the truth does.
- Answer honestly and specifically. Yes, Marcus emailed, here is what he asked for, and here is what Dana has and has not agreed to. Vagueness reads as collusion, and clients reliably sense it.
- Then hand the decision back. What, if anything, does Priya want communicated before the review? Does she want to speak to Marcus herself? Silence is a legitimate choice.
- Name the impact. 'I want to check how it lands that he asked, and that I'm telling you.' Trust is built from predictability, not from the absence of awkward facts.
- Why this matters more than the content: if Dana conceals the request and Priya later learns of it, every previous reassurance becomes suspect, and Priya will edit what she brings to sessions. The cost of the truth is one uncomfortable conversation; the cost of concealment is the coaching itself.
A strong answer also notes that Dana should not promise what she cannot control - she cannot guarantee Marcus will never ask again.
3. On the compression request: what should Dana weigh before agreeing to squeeze three sessions into two weeks?
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This looks logistical and is actually a contracting question about dose, purpose, and whose agenda drives the work.
- Whose need is the timeline serving? A 90-day review is a real deadline, but the coaching goal was Priya's, not the review's. Ask Priya whether accelerating serves her.
- What is lost by compression? Sessions spaced closely leave little room for in-the-field experimentation, which is where most behaviour change happens. Two sessions in two weeks may produce insight and no practice, or may be useful as a focused sprint before a known event. Either can be right - but the coach should say which one she thinks she is agreeing to.
- Agree, don't comply. Dana can offer options (keep the spacing; run one longer session plus one follow-up; add a written reflection between) and let Priya choose.
- Keep the sponsor's request out of the room as an instruction. Present it as information to Priya, not as a requirement.
- Red flag to name in an exam answer: if Dana reshapes the engagement solely because the invoice depends on it, the client's agenda has been displaced by the payer's - a competency 3 failure even if no confidentiality line is crossed.